Majority of sex toys are for women. The reason behind this is the sex toy market has more female consumers than males. As a result, the market for gay men offers only a handful of sex toys.

However, in recent years, more so during the pandemic, there’s been a boom in the gay sex toy market. With social distancing measures implemented, it’s understandable why more queer men are deciding to give gay sex toys a try. That’s why we’ve created this list, so you know what’s hot in the market and what’s not.

If you are looking for gay sex toys you want to use for your own pleasure, or for you and your partner to spice things up, we’ve curated a couple of products we know you’ll love. Whether you’re a newbie or a pro who’s looking to add some new toys in your collection, we’ve got you covered.

Best Sex Toys for Gay Men

1. Hugo by Lelo

Right off the bat, let’s start with a remote controlled prostate massager. Lelo promises that their prostate massager, Hugo, will increase the size and intensity of the male climax by 33 percent. It’s also hands-free, waterproof, rechargeable, and medium-sized so you can take it anywhere with you and it’ll be discreet to use.

With the prostate massager, you’ll find a new way to climax aside from masturbating. It’s so easy to use: you just have to put the device in you, find the comfortable spot, and wait until you experience new levels of pleasure. Hugo by Lelo also says it can increase the time your orgasm will last. Usually, a male orgasm lasts only 10 to 13 seconds, but if you use Hugo, it could last up to 30 seconds. Who, of all the gay men, wouldn’t want that?

Purchasers have nothing but great reviews for Hugo by Lelo. One gay man said after using the remote controlled massager, he wondered if he’ll ever need a man again. He also described finally having the feeling of “eyes rolling in the back of my head” after using the toy. With this kind of review, Hugo definitely lives up to its name as the wonders it does are HUGE-o.

So if you’re looking for something that’ll give you a hands-free orgasm and let it last longer, you can purchase Hugo by Lelo for $197.10.

Pros:

  • Hands-free
  • Waterproof
  • Rechargeable
  • Good battery life
  • Discreet
  • Newbie-friendly
  • Multiple levels of vibration

Cons:

  • Expensive
  • Controller design could be better

2. Edge 2 by Lovense

We started with a remote-controlled prostate massager, now let’s take it up a notch and talk about an app-controlled massager.

This is Edge 2 by Lovense and it’s a wonderful sex toy you can use anywhere if you and your partner are looking for some thrill in your sex life. The app also works well with couples in a long-distance relationship as it’s possible to use in both close range and long distance. And if you’re up for some long-distance gay role-playing, we have some ideas.

Edge 2’s app also has sound level control if you want to be discreet, and unlimited vibration patterns if you want to play a little and find the best level of stimulation you’re comfortable with. It also boasts of being the first adjustable prostate massager so you can accurately hit your P-spot when using it.

Edge 2 users said in a review that they tried using other prostate massagers but nothing lived up to the experience it gave them. Accordingly, they craved for anal play more after each use. Others also commended it for its long battery life. So, you don’t have to worry that the app-controlled sex toy will die on you in the middle of anal play.

What’s even better about this product is its price. If you’re ready to try Edge 2, you can purchase it for only $99!

Pros:

  • Sound level control
  • Unlimited vibration patterns
  • Adjustable neck
  • Good battery life
  • Can be paired with their app
  • Affordable

Cons:

  • Shaft can be a little uncomfortable because of its firmness

3. Pulse by Hot Octopuss

The next product is a gay sex toy you can use whether you are flaccid or erect. The ultimate goal is to help you have a hands-free orgasm. This product is called Pulse by Hot Octopuss.

Pulse is a masturbator or vibrator for men. The reason why this is such a great product is that it’s the first to provide powerful and high-amplitude vibrations to stimulate the most sensitive area of a man’s penis, which is the frenulum.

Hence, Pulse users don’t have to have an erection in order to reach climax. The manufacturers also target men who may have occasional erectile dysfunction, so they can still achieve the big O without having to be fully erect.

When using Pulse, you might need a water-based lube to make it easier to slide the penis inside the product. You can purchase Pulse via three versions. The first one is Solo Essential, which includes only the sex toy. The Solo Lux, on the other hand, comes with a wearable wristband remote control, while Duo is recommended for couples as it has a soft vibrating underside for your partner’s pleasure.

Whatever you choose, the reviews are great for Pulse. One purchaser said he was delighted by the number of options and vibration levels, while another said after figuring out how to use the sex toy for a week, it’s now part of his everyday routine. There might be a learning curve for Pulse, but the time spent learning about the product and how to use it will be worth it!

This gay sex toy costs $99 to $189.

Pros:

  • Hands-free
  • Powerful and high-amplitude vibrations
  • Beneficial to men who have occasional erectile dysfunction
  • Three variations to choose from

Cons:

  • The strong vibrations are not for everyone
  • Noisy because of the strong vibrations

4. Silicone Rechargeable Rockin’ Rabbit Enhancer by Adam & Eve

Although this product is marketed toward male and female couples, it could still be a satisfying gay sex toy because of its features.

The Rockin’ Rabbit Enhancer by Adam & Eve has dual silicone cock rings to maximize your partner’s hardness and stamina. This feature makes it great for a long, hot, and steamy anal penetration. The bunny ears, on the other hand, are great for stimulating a woman’s clitoris but it can also feel amazing in your male partner’s bum hole.

The Rockin’ Rabbit Enhancer’s other great features include seven functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. You can start with the gentlest level and work your way up to increase the pleasure your partner is feeling between your shaft and the toy. The cock ring also comes with memory chip technology that picks up the level where you and your partner left off.

The product’s battery life is good as it can run for 70 minutes on the highest settings and 90 minutes on the lowest settings. 70 minutes of intense anal play? Not bad at all. It’s also waterproof so you can enjoy it in the shower. And it’s very easy to clean as you only need soap and water or a toy cleaner after every use.

The only problem is sometimes because of the shipping, it could arrive broken. Some have reported it would not charge at all, or even after charging it for eight hours, it still won’t turn on. It’s best to contact the manufacturer in case this happens to you.

If you want two cock rings in one product, you can have this for only $39.95.

Pros:

  • Features seven functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation
  • Comes with memory chip technology
  • Good battery life
  • Waterproof
  • Easy to clean

Cons:

  • Not much wiggle room to adjust the size
  • Could arrive broken because of shipping

5. Bird Cage by Luxurious Bliss

If your partner has been very bad or if you just want to spice things up in your sex life, this gay sex toy would be your favorite. Bird Cage by Luxurious Bliss is exactly what it sounds. It’s a cock cage that comes with a padlock. So if you are in the mood to control your partner and let him beg you to take the bird cage off, this one is for you.

Not only can you control your partner while using the Bird Cage, you can even tease him and let his manhood be restricted by this teeny, tiny cage. Don’t worry about your man getting hurt by this sex toy because it’s made from medical stainless steel and it’s hypoallergenic. The only thing that’s going to hurt them is the agony of wanting to get their manhood out and penetrate you.

This product is also curved so that it can fit the penis naturally and comfortably. Simply place the Bird Cage around the penis and balls while still soft so it can fit easier. Once done, use the pins and lock the device so your partner won’t be able to let his cock escape your teasing. You can even do this while your partner is asleep so they’ll be surprised and aroused after waking up to their caged penis.

Do you want this kind of excitement? Get the Bird Cage for only $34.99.

Pros:

  • Made from medical stainless steel
  • Hypoallergenic
  • Great sex toy for those who are into BDSM

Cons:

  • Not newbie-friendly

6. Galileo Glass Butt Plug by Luxurious Bliss

We know what you’re thinking: glass shoved up down there? Wouldn’t that be painful? We kid you not when we say that glass butt plugs will give you a different experience from the silicone ones you may be used to. If you have no glass toy yet, this is the time to get one.

The Galileo Glass Butt Plug is handcrafted and designed thoughtfully by the manufacturers. It’s mid-sized so it’s great for first-time users. It has a classic shape to it, making it easy for you to insert in your anus. It also has a wide enough base so you don’t have to worry about the possibility of sliding it all in and getting it stuck down there forever.

Glass plugs have become increasingly popular because of their durability and firmness. Since they don’t move, they’re easier to control on your own or by your partner. Unlike silicone plugs, they’re also great for temperature play. Glass can be heated up or cooled before use, so you can explore this feature while using it.

Cleaning the Galileo Glass Butt Plug won’t be a problem, too, because it’s nonporous, seamless, and can be cleaned through many ways—you can boil it, bleach it, and wash it with soap and water or a sex toy cleaner. This makes it more hygienic to share with your partner if you so desire. What you need to keep in mind, however, is being careful with storage. Make sure it doesn’t have contact with abrasive surfaces. If your glass butt plug gets scratched or chipped, it won’t be safe to use anymore.

If you’re excited to try this glass butt plug, you can get it for only $29.99.

Pros:

  • Affordable
  • Newbie-friendly
  • Wide base to avoid the possibility of it sliding in
  • Great for temperature play
  • Easy to clean

Cons:

  • Fragile
  • Some people got their sex toy in a different color

7. Stamina Trainer Penis Tip Massager by Too Timid

This product might be a bit weird for you as you’d wonder how a tiny sex toy would help with your stamina. The Stamina Trainer Penis Tip Massager by Too Timid is designed to be so tiny so it only stimulates one of the most sensitive parts of the penis—the glans. It sends vibrating ticklers to improve one’s endurance and stamina. There are ten escalating and pulsating vibration functions so you have a lot of options to choose from as you navigate your way toward finding the best level of stimulation.

According to the product’s description, the Penis Tip Massager is best for those who want to strengthen their erection before anal penetration or heighten their pleasure while masturbating. So, this little guy would be great whether it’s for solo play or when you’re with your partner.

This isn’t like the penis pumps that use force to enhance your erection. If you’re unsure about using such devices, this toy is the perfect alternative. It does the same job, but does not use force. Think of it as a tongue playing with your glans, but the pleasure you’ll get from it is ten times more intense.

So many positive reviews say purchasers are glad they bought the item and got surprised at how it does the job. Some said the ticklers drove them crazy, while others thanked the manufacturers since they needed something that would keep them erect before doing anal penetration.

The material used to create this product is hypoallergenic silicone so you won’t have any problem cleaning it with soap and water. Get this easy-to-clean, easy-to use gay sex toy for only $49.95.

Pros:

  • Ten escalating and pulsating vibration functions
  • Easy to use
  • Great for solo play
  • Affordable

Cons:

  • Requires 2 AAA batteries

8. Egg Plugs SuperSoft Silicone Butt Plugs by SquarePegToys

If you want a gay sex toy that can help you stretch your anus, the Egg Plugs SuperSoft Silicone Butt Plugs by SquarePegToys is the right product for you. These anal toys are soft and comfortable and come in nine different sizes. The variety of sizes allows you to use it whether you’re a newbie or someone who’s a stretching enthusiast.

The egg’s oval shape makes it easy and comfortable to wear. The manufacturers also promise that it’s smooth, squishy, and flexible so it’s great for extended wear. SquarePegToys has been in the sex toy industry since 1997, so you gotta trust them if they say they’ve perfected their plugs for utmost satisfaction.

The available sizes range from extra small, which has a 4.1” circumference, to Monster, which has a whopping 11.3” circumference. Egg Plugs purchasers recommend getting the medium or smaller size if you’re only starting. From there, you can size up if you feel like you need a wider circumference. Take note, the sex shop does not allow returns so you have to be sure with the size you want before checking out.

If you want a comfortable butt plug that stays in place and comes in different sizes, you can buy this from $29 to $159.

Pros:

  • Comes in nine different sizes
  • Great for extended wear
  • Reputable sex toy manufacturer
  • Comfortable

Cons:

  • Some users reportedthat these toys won’t stay in and keep slipping out
  • Shop does not allow returns

9. b-Vibe Snug Plug Weighted Silicone Butt Plugs by Booty Toys

Product number 8 is a silicone butt plug, so we wanted to introduce a weighted silicone one for this portion of the article. The b-Vibe Snug Plug Weighted Silicone Butt Plugs by Booty Toys come in six sizes. Unlike the Egg Plugs, this helps you have a feeling of fullness down there whenever you use it. The weight is enclosed inside the piece and you can even choose how light or heavy your toy should be.

You can also use this for extended periods of time or while you’re out and about. Those who purchased the product said it hits the P-spot right and prepares one for an explosive and intense orgasm. One purchaser even used it for a full 48 hours and he said it’s the best butt plug he’s ever purchased. Another noted that unlike other plugs, the b-Vibe Snug Plug is barely noticeable and no one will know you’re wearing it.

It also comes in cute different colors including fuchsia, purple, black, sunburst, and teal. As for the sizes, the smallest is 55 grams and is 3.4 inches in insertable length, while the biggest is 515 grams and is 6.3 inches in insertable length.

It’s up to you to see if the reviews live up to your expectations. Discover that by purchasing this gay sex toy for only $75.

Pros:

  • Comes in six sizes
  • Comes in different colors
  • You can choose how light or heavy it should be
  • Discreet

Cons:

  • A little bit pricy
  • The base can be uncomfortable depending on the user

10. Tor II Vibrating Penis Ring by Lelo

Another vibrator for men that we recommend is the Tor II Vibrating Penis Ring by Lelo. It’s rechargeable, quiet, and strong depending on what you choose among the six settings it has.

The Tor II vibrator hopes to stimulate your scrotum for intense pleasure before, during, or after anal penetration. You just have to experiment with the cock ring’s settings to see what works best for you. It’s also waterproof so don’t be afraid to play with it while you’re in the shower or somewhere else where there’s water.

Another plus for this product is it comes with a small and discreet carrying case where you can charge it, too. You will have to charge the product for two hours to get a full battery, then you can play with it for one and a half hours.

There’s nothing but good reviews for this vibrating cock ring. One reviewer said it has spiced up his sex life as his erection became stronger and he lasted longer. Another claimed he had intense orgasms as the ring knew the right spots to hit. This makes the gay sex toy great for a hands-free orgasm, too.

The only thing you need to look out for is the product isn’t made for men with more girth. It may be too tight and painful for a bulky shaft rather than satisfying or stimulating. Be sure to measure properly before you purchase this sex toy.

Considering the features, measurement, and intense pleasure it promises, you can buy this product for only $149.99.

Pros:

  • Rechargeable
  • Quiet
  • Six levels of vibration strength
  • Waterproof
  • Good battery life

Cons:

  • Long charging time
  • Isn’t for men with more girth
  • Expensive

11. Aneros - A Prostate Stimulator for Men by Vibrators.com

Item number 11 is another prostate stimulator. If you aren’t getting the hint, we need you to buy one because we know you’ll love it. Just like the other prostate stimulators in this list, Aneros by Vibrators.com promises to give you stronger and more intense orgasms.

This product is tinier than the earlier ones mentioned and it’s shaped as such to find your P-spot. The shape and design is patented so if we were you, grab your chance to get Aneros while supplies last.

Because of its design, it massages the prostate and the perineum simultaneously. This is the reason why the product promises heightened and intensified orgasm.

So many people who left reviews for the product said they are glad they have this on their bedside table. One said you might need time to get used to it, but once you’re comfortable, you will reach climax a hundred times better.

This product sells for only $49.99.

Pros:

  • Simultaneously massages the prostate and the perineum
  • Easy to use
  • Affordable

Cons:

  • Limited supply
  • User needs time to get used to it

12. Njoy Plug by Early2Bed

We’ve already showed you glass and silicone anal plugs, but we haven’t recommended one that’s made of stainless steel. So here we are with item number 12, the Njoy Plug by Early2Bed. The toy is smaller than the palm of an average hand, but don’t underestimate it for its size.

Although it’s a bit tiny, it has a large head that will stretch you and get you ready for penetration. The stem is short so that it’s comfortable to wear in or out of the bedroom and it stays in place.

Since the butt plug has a little weight on it due to its material, it will also give you a feeling of fullness. Just like the glass plug featured earlier, the Njoy Plug may also be used in temperature play. Experiment with hot or cold temperature and figure out what gets you hot and steamy (no pun intended).

For this product, you have three sizes to choose from: small, medium, and large. The small one is 1 inch wide, the medium is 1.3 inches wide, and the largest size is 1.5 inches wide.

If you want this teeny but powerful butt plug, you can get it for $60.

Pros:

  • Great for temperature play
  • Comes in three sizes
  • Comfortable
  • Affordable

Cons:

  • Some users don’t like the its tiny size

13. Silicone Dual Penis Ring by Phanxy

This penis ring is not like the other gay sex toys we mentioned earlier. It’s solely for a man’s penis and does not have any other attachment to pleasure your partner. If you want a double ring that stretches if you get harder and does not constrict the bases of your penis and testicles in any way, the Silicone Dual Penis Ring by Phanxy is a great purchase.

There are no bad reviews about this bad boy because it does the job and does what it says it would. Many buyers are happy they purchased it and cannot wait to get another one. What’s best about this soft silicone dual penis ring is the material because unlike other cock rings that buyers tried, it doesn’t pinch or scratch the penis. This cock ring just sits there snuggly and helps with a longer and more intense erection.

You can get discounts if you buy more than one cock ring. You can buy one for $13.99, two for $18.13, and three for $27. You can give the extra penis rings as a surprise to your partner and to your playmate in case you guys are having a three-way.

Pros:

  • Affordable
  • Made from body safe silicone
  • Easy to use and clean

Cons:

  • Some users reported that this toy doesn’t fit them properly

14. Ryder by Tantus

If you want a butt plug that you can ride without it hurting you or stretching you too much, Ryder by Tantus is the perfect product you need to try. It’s 1.47 inches maximum in diameter and is great for those who want to level up their anal play in bed. It’s not recommended for first-time users and is more likely appropriate for intermediate users.

The Ryder has a velvety soft texture so you’re sure it won’t hurt a bit once you insert it. It also has a gradual curve design so the sphincter muscles won’t be shocked as you insert and remove the butt plug.

Some reviewers said they use the Ryder as something to loosen themselves up before anal sex. Another added that because of its material, it’s as if he isn’t using anything when the Ryder is inserted. The only complaint about it is that the tip of the toy has the possibility of digging into the wall corner where the perineum meets the anus.

Another bonus, though, about the Ryder is it’s made with the company’s own unique formula of 100 percent ultra-premium silicone. With this feature, you’re sure that it’s body-safe. It’s also easy to clean as it is boilable, bleachable, and dishwasher safe.

Taking into consideration the good and not-so-good features, you can buy this product for only $37.

Pros:

  • Velvety soft texture
  • Gradual curve design that won’t shock the sphincter muscles
  • Made with the company’s unique formula of 100% ultra-premium silicone
  • Easy to clean

Cons:

  • The base is narrow causing it to slip in sometimes
  • Possibility of the tip to dig into the wall corner where the perineum meets the anus

Wrapping Up: The Best Sex Toy for You

So there you have it, the 14 best gay sex toys you can purchase today. Before we let you go and have fun splurging on your new sex toys (emphasis on “toys” because we know you wouldn’t want just one from this list), you have to read the following.

We hope you paid attention to all the features we stated about each product. These features, pros, cons, and prices will help you make an informed decision. If you want to know more about the sex toys we listed, it’s best if you do your research, too. There are many reviews by real users available as well as videos that’ll help you understand more about the products.

As for cleaning your sex toys, we know you know you have to be hygienic. Most of the products we’ve mentioned can be cleaned with soap and water, boiled, or bleached. But before you do clean your toy, it’s best to read the instructions so you won’t be wasting your money in the event it comes with a more specific cleaning instruction.

If you’ve purchased anything from this list, we’d appreciate it if you left a comment. Let us know if we missed out on an important feature or something you really liked about the product so we can inform more readers.

Lastly, we want you to explore gay sex toys so you can discover kinks you didn’t know you liked and other toys that’ll help stimulate you more. Remember, the best sex toy for you will be what your body craves the most. So go ahead and figure it out. Life is too short not to enjoy what’s available and explore your sexuality!