Lingerie can mean many things for women: undergarments, intimate apparel, sleepwear, or lightweight robes. Men, on the other hand, have a more simplistic understanding of lingerie—that is, anything sexy—which can practically mean anything for them, too.
Sure, men are visual creatures, but are there other reasons as to why you should invest in sexy lingerie? Sex therapist Sandi Kaufman explained it best when she called lingerie a “form of foreplay without words.” An appetizer, if you will. It’s also one way to break the monotony of routine sex without having to resort to threesomes or sex toys. What we want to say is this: there’s everything to gain in owning sexy naughty lingerie and nothing to lose but a few dollars.
Informal studies have found men have said that the allure of sexy lingerie doesn’t so much lie in the actual clothing, but how the confidence that it can bring to women makes them look much more attractive. That said, even night clothes can be sexy! Like many clothing, lingerie can also be attuned to seasons and occasions, and fabric is one effective way of setting a certain garment apart from the rest in use and purpose.
To shop sexy, we suggest going for the most common fabrics of satin, mesh, and lace to add that touch of soft femininity and elegance into the pieces, much like an artwork to be admired or a present to be unwrapped. The fabric enhances the sensual experience for both parties involved as it creates beautiful silhouettes.
Of course, women don’t need men’s approval to feel good about themselves, but it’s definitely a welcomed ego boost! So for this article, we’re adhering to the male gaze while simultaneously taking into account what is also beautiful for us women. We know how exhausting it can be shopping for erotic lingerie, so we’ve rounded up some of the best pieces for you and your partner to enjoy, to touch, and to remove.
Sexy Bra and Panty Sets to Fall in Love With
1. Glossy Flossy Caged Quarter Cup Bra and G-String by Savage X Fenty
Savage X Fenty never disappoints, especially not with this Glossy Flossy set. Make Valentine’s an everyday occasion with this popping red set that combines everything we love into one place. If the color isn’t enough to grab your attention, there are also straps, ruffles, and charms that serve as eye candy at this point. The caged quarter cup is half embroidered, half sheer tulle with a ruffed detailing and glossy coated fabric. The cup itself is enhanced with heart-patterned power mesh, supported by pads on the inside. What makes this piece truly unique is that its outer material is made out of polyurethane, a plastic material akin to the look of vinyl, which adds to that exotic feel. Take it from Rihanna herself—after all, it’s one of her best picks!
2. Love Lacy Bralette and Roomie Thong by LOVE Stories
Look pretty in pink with this sparkling combo! Something about the mauve pink color and the mesh lace fabric make this piece appear so dainty. This sexy satin lingerie is crafted entirely from lace, the cups lined with tonal mesh and finished with a trim of scalloped eyelash lace. It’s layer after layer of sophisticated surprises! Environmentally conscious gals will also be glad to know that the Love Lacy Bralette is made out of recycled yarns. Although the thong isn’t the exact pair for the bralette, it’s a pretty close similarity! The Roomie is a tanga-style string brief cut from satin fabric with the same mesh lace at the back. It sits low on the hips for that extra allure. You’ll be impossible to resist with this one.
3. Selita Underwire Bra and Boyshort by Cosabella
Cosabella describes the Selita set as “sweet by day, sexy by night” and we couldn’t agree more! The Selita is an elegant shade of blue with white floral embroidery lace in all the right places. The underwire bra has a plunging V-shaped neckline with meticulous detailing on the edges, bound to make your cleavage the star of the show. Meanwhile, the boyshort is a cheeky fit with moderate rear coverage with sheer mesh, a lovelier variation of the typical sexy french underwear. The set is a snug fit but it doesn’t compromise or sacrifice on any of the sexy features. Perfect for a night of watching Netflix or something else along those lines.
4. Marseille Wired Basque and Juliette Thong by Bluebella
Take your wardrobe to the next level with the Marseille Wired Basque. This is perfect for those who adore the corset look but are unable to fully commit to them. The sleek cutouts are reminiscent of the exact same aesthetic without having to feel restrictive in wear. The charcoal embroidery that runs across the chest area screams confidence all around. Along with the Juliette that’s just as gorgeous, you can also opt to pair it with some jaw-dropping tights to complete the dominatrix look. Outside the bedroom, suit up (or down!) with this one-piece, supported by underwire cups and adjustable suspender straps for overall comfort and flexibility. We can just imagine matching this baby up with matching black boots for a dynamite duo he won’t be able to resist.
5. Signature Lace Open Teddy by Hanky Panky
Fan of the Burlesque look? We know we are. Host your own private show with your partner in this sultry teddy costume. You can accessorize with a black leather mask to add intensity to the mystery. Pressed close in the middle is with only a few satin ribbons that tie at the neckline and keep the whole outfit from falling apart. One wrong pull can leave you erotically vulnerable. Just when you thought it couldn’t get any better, Hanky Panky has a crotchless panties surprise waiting for you down below. Take note that the two lower bows are non-functional so there’s not much room for error in sizing, so make sure to get this in your correct size!
6. Jardin d’Amour Tulle Bodysuit by Intimissimi
Nothing screams sexy wife lingerie better than the color white. Bridal lingerie has been a rising trend of the century as a well-kept secret for the couple. Bring back honeymoon night with the Jardin d’Amour, an ivory tulle bodysuit with triangle cups and an empire waist embellished with satin trim. It has a deep back neckline with a single rhinestone at the center of the bust to serve as a sort of commemoration of the special occasion. The bodysuit almost looks like a soft translucent cloud wrapped around your body, bringing with it surreal wonders. It’s surely a tease—but an innocent one at that.
7. Violet Balconette Bra and Thong by Fleur du Mal
If you don’t believe in love at first sight, now you most certainly do. The Violet set is beautiful in every sense of the word with its sultry red color and uninhibited flowers to match. It’s almost reminiscent of a femme fatale vibe. The balconette bra features scalloped underwire cups for a magical boosting effect along with the straps to be adjusted to your liking. Fleur du Mal isn’t exactly sexy lingerie for the masses, and the price tag can be quite the shocker, but seeing the upscale taste in the crafting of each lingerie might just be worth the splurge. If anything, the Violet set is sweet but never innocent.
8. Fan Floral Bustier and Thong Panty by For Love & Lemons
Look and feel like a period painting with this piece from For Love & Lemons in collaboration with Victoria’s Secret! If it’s quality pieces you’re looking for, you’re sure to find it here. The collection is said to “blend dreamy confidence with thoughtful detailing, giving each piece a unique and feminine feel.” The bustier has a shirred chiffon paneling with an intricate caged back, while the matching thong is no less impressive. The meticulous addition of embroidered florals, pom pom elastics, and contrasting seams really nail that vintage feel with a touch of modern design. You’ll be looking like Sleeping Beauty in no time—that is, if you can learn to be comfortable with g-string wedgies!
9. Kalahari Underwire Bodysuit by Cosabella
The Kalahari looks like an undergarment a royalty would wear…in an erotic drama, that is. The sheer mesh bodysuit has intricate embroidery patterned at the torso with the floral tendrils extending to the back. Inspired by the African desert, the muted earth tones of maroon and copper are entrancing in their own way. It also has non-padded underwire cups for maximized comfort that can be worn at any time of the day. This piece by Cosabella has a high-leg cut to make your ass more pronounced than normal. Just be wary of trying out too flexible a position as the mesh might stretch too far out to no point of return.
10. Joey Bralette and Butterfly Brief by Only Hearts
Only Hearts has some of the prettiest lingerie on the market—and here’s a true stunner that embodies what we mean. The Joey bralette is for the fun and flirtatious who likes to play as a damsel in distress from time to time. It bids goodbye to the typical plunge and balconette bras to give way to bandeau-style lovers. Sheer is not just celebrated, but elevated in this piece, offering a rather bold glimpse of what is to come. No underwires or paddings are necessary here. The Butterfly brief keeps pace with sheer ruffles that hang from the waistband, almost like the tiniest skirt you’ve ever seen. It’s perfect to give as a gift on special occasions to a best friend or girlfriend!
11. Emma Silk Triangle Bra and Brief by Intimissimi
Looking for something chic? Stick to the classics and you’ll never go wrong. Emma hits two birds with one stone in the sexy lingerie favorites: triangle bras and silk. Having this staple sexy panty set in your top drawer is a must if you don’t own one yet. The triangle bra is styled in silk, making it shine under the light without drawing too much attention to it in a true sexy silk lingerie fashion. The bra is an unpadded one with braided double shoulder straps and top-notch stitching to support breasts of all shapes and sizes. Meanwhile, the brief is lined with a seamless rear, fully embracing the curve of the hips—a flattering sight to all who bear witness to it.
12. Oriana Open Bra and Thong by Bluebella
The Oriana set leaves very, very little to the imagination with its open bra and thong get-up, with nothing but delicate gold-tone chains to cover you up. It’s a bold statement piece that’s made to show off everything you’ve got. This piece is made even more exciting since the chains detach for more versatile styling possibilities. The slimline banding embraces your curves in a way that no other sexy lingerie can. Of course, Bluebella also takes into account your comfort, so the thong is lined with a cotton gusset thicker than the band. Wear it your way with this ultimate luxury lingerie set.
13. Lace Trim Satin Nightie by Pretty Little Thing
We know we said this list would exclude sleepwear, but this could easily double as a sexy negligee if the fit is right and tight. This nightie features a satin material with delicate lace trim, making this another sexy lingerie classic that every woman needs in her closet. We suggest going commando for this to spice things up and teach him to never expect the unexpected. Ever tried doing the deed with clothes on? This nightie is the perfect gateway for that kind of lifestyle that will leave him wanting more. You’ll surely be visiting his dreams tonight.
(Un)Satisfied With Our Hot Lingerie Collection?
Embracing your femininity is one of the sexiest things you can do for yourself, and wearing sexy lingerie styles can give you that much-needed boost of confidence inside the bedroom. Although we love everything on the list, our favorites would have to be LOVE Stories’ Love Lacy Bralette and Roomie Thong, Fleur du Mal’s Violet Balconette Bra and Thong, and Only Hearts’ Joey Bralette and Butterfly Brief for the fun and flirty energy it brings to the table, epitomizing what it truly means to wear a lingerie.
If none of them excite you, don’t be discouraged! There are so many hot lingeries out there for you to discover and we’ve only scratched the surface. If you’re unsure where to even start, opt for bold colors like black and red to already set yourself apart from other more muted undergarments. There’s just something about those colors that scream passion and submission to your lover. Knowing your size and terms can also help make the shopping experience much easier. Whatever vibe you decide on, always remember that sexy girls in lingerie make the most confident girls.
We hope you had as much fun going through the sexy lingerie sets as we did curating this list!
