A breeding kink, or impregnation fetish, is quite a sexual fantasy to have. Many don’t understand it, few will have it, but most will be curious enough to search about it or experiment with it. So what is it?
People with breeding fetishes are attracted or aroused by the idea of getting pregnant—or getting someone else pregnant. Risking pregnancy entails that the man has to finish inside the woman without a condom on. Whether or not the woman does end up pregnant is none of the breeding kink’s business—it’s only there for the thrill, not the outcome.
That said, don’t get breeding kink confused with pregnancy kink, with the latter being more focused on how bodies change during pregnancy and can even extend to the very act of giving birth. In addition, already-pregnant women can’t be at the receiving end of a breeding kink since they can’t conceive for more than one at a time.
The Psychology Behind The Breeding Fetish
You might be wondering: what sets the breeding fetish apart from similar sexual practices like creampie, raw dogging, marking, and inflation? It’s not just as simple as unprotected sex. People who are into breeding have varying answers as to what about it arouses them, but we’ve identified three main factors that most have identified with.
Risk
Breeding kink isn’t just about loving the feeling of having semen inside you—it’s about the potentially unwanted pregnancy that could happen. Being turned on by risk is nothing new and even more common than you think. Even the most vanilla people you know would sometimes have sex in a public bathroom or sneak a raw insertion or two.
Of course, if you have a breeding kink but don’t actually want to get pregnant, it would be wise to always have contraceptives on hand. Some partners will still opt to use hormonal or emergency contraception since they’re primarily after exchanging body fluids with each other.
The significant risks of pregnancy might no longer be there, but the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases is. Sexual health is thrown out the window. To them, semen is too precious to waste—and you can bet breeding kink practitioners won’t waste that on facials or pearl necklaces. Any other form of contraception is welcome except the barrier method like condoms, which prevents the semen from coming into contact with the cervix opening.
We recommend using the natural contraception granted to you by your body! It’s called the rhythm method where the woman tracks her menstrual cycle to know her most fertile days. Having sex on non-ovulating days will significantly lower your chances of getting pregnant, but not entirely. However, there are still solid benefits to using this method. For one, it will free you from acne, mood swings, and—not to mention—the expenses that come with pills and surgeries.
Submission
In usual cases, submissives are tied, bound, marked, or robbed of their senses. By doing so, the man imposes his dominance, claims his territory, and takes ownership of his partner. The woman is no longer part of the sexual act to gain pleasure, but to be taken as a vessel used solely for reproduction purposes. It’s an animalistic kind of lust that leaves the other party humiliated for being used like an object.
That fantasy goes beyond the bedroom, too. The idea of a pregnant woman who would eventually have to bear a child reinforces her submission—this time, to her child. Bodily autonomy is sacrificed and removed all because of the man in power. He has the power to potentially change the course of the woman’s life from one simple act of climax.
There are so many ways to make a submissive feel like one, but the breeding fetish involves total submission like no other by owning their body and contaminating them with your seed. This is also why the breeding kink isn’t just limited to straight women with straight men for partners. Even lesbians and queers can be part of this kink community (more on this below).
For others, it’s a more loving version of degradation play. Your partner wanting to impregnate you could mean he’s using you as a fucktoy, but it could also mean he likes you enough to stay and take part in child-rearing with you.
Roleplay
For a lot of people, it’s less about reality and more about domination and objectification. The breeding roleplay is a fascination shared by many. One Reddit user shared that she was absolutely terrified of pregnancy to the point where she would faint at the thought of it happening to her.
Still, she has a strong desire for breeding kink: “Having my dom tell me he can’t wait to put babies inside of me or talk about how he can’t wait to watch my belly grow drives me crazy. The reason I can handle this is because it’s all pretend. I know it’s not going to happen, so I’m able to relax into the absolute fantasy and the feelings that I get with it.”
It wasn’t explicitly said, but the breeding fetish allowed her a safe space to take ownership of her fear of pregnancy. Instead of the usual risk, she gets off on the lack of it.
Cum Tubes To Satisfy Your Breeding Kink
As established earlier in the article, not everyone wants to actually risk getting pregnant. Can you imagine how hard it would be to look for a male partner able to ejaculate who’s willing to go through that much risk for a few minutes’ worth of pleasure?
Luckily, breeding kinks can be satiated on your own. Even lesbians can have their fair share of fun with the right toys. You don’t need a man to fulfill your fantasies—all you’ll need is a reliable cum tube and you’re good to go!
There are thousands of penis ejaculating toys you can find online, but below are five of our picks to get you started on your breeding journey:
1. Big Sprinkle Dildo by UtopiaBazar
Get the next best thing with this lifelike nut-busting sensation. Everything about it replicates a real penis: a veiny shaft, textured balls, and a satisfying squirt that mimics ejaculation. It has a length of about 6.3 inches—which is just right if you ask us. Priced at $45, it has one of the softest silicone you can touch, too.
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2. Sleipnir Horse Cock by Kanojo Toys
Feeling fantastical? Kanojo Toys takes us deep into Norse mythology with this Odin’s horse-inspired ejaculating dildo. The red shaft is bulging with veins and muscles in all the right places, but the true star of the show is what lies inside its black balls: an integrated tube that can contain water, lubricant, or even semen to fill you up. The small size is priced at $83 with an insertable length of 6.2 inches.
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3. Loco Lobo by Guilty Box
Own your guilt with the Loco Lobo—a toy that can be customized with any color, shimmer, or hardness of your desire! Coming in at $140, it’s much longer than the average size at 8.5 inches of insertable length. It also comes with a fully functioning suction cup for some hand-free messy fun! Unlike other products, this one already comes with a 60 ml syringe for easy use.
4. Squirt Tube by Lair of Lust
Sick of the lack of choices in cum tubes? We’ve got you covered. The Squirt Tube isn’t a star seller on Etsy for nothing. This one turns any ordinary toy into a squirting dildo of your dreams. Now, any toy can fulfill a breeding kink! It’s essentially an add-on for existing orders that comes with a 100 ml syringe. It’s easy to attach to the dildo without any hassle. Customer reviews tell us it’s “definitely worth the additional cost.”
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5. Dagon Depth Training Dildo by Sinnovator
Of course, we can’t end this list without a tentacle somewhere! What better way to gamble with risk than have ejaculation placed all the way inside you at the farthest depths. Dagon can come in an insertable length of 12, 16, 16.4 and 22.5—not centimeters—but inches! You read that right. It comes with a cum tube and syringe at a total of $95. Curl the tentacle any way you want it. It’s perfect for depth training for anal sessions, too.
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Final Thoughts
Now that you’re a little more acquainted with the breeding kink, why not try it out? Understanding the role of risk, submission, and roleplay in this fetish gives you an edge to use this power for your total control—or lack of it. You’ve probably played with risk in the past many times, so it’s about time we put a label on that practice!
